Friday, October 18, 2013

By Fatima Absar....




Live where you fear to live…..
 

“I wanted to do this but what, what people would think about it ….” The most repeated and ever torchering words, come across to my ears very often. Wiat!! Give it a thought. Would these people will help you to cope up with the frustration and depression?? Or they will help you out when you will regret the time you have lost to taken that step or doing what you wanted to do?? Well we know it much better!! 

To be very honest people just want to command you. They wanted to rule. They wanted to be superior. If you wanted to be happy and satisfied, never let anyone giving you orders and treat you like puppets. People love to do this. 

We should be fully aware of ourselves. It is the only tool which let you to be strong. We need to be clear which emotions are harmful and which are helpful; then cultivate those that are conducive to peace of mind. Often, due to a lack of knowledge, we accept anger and hatred as natural parts of our minds. This is an example of ignorance being the source of our problems. To reduce our destructive emotions we strengthen the positive ones; such emotional hygiene can contribute to a healthier life. 

Earl Nightingale has wit fully said: “Learn to enjoy every minute of your life. Be happy now. Don’t wait for something outside of yourself to make you happy in the future. Think how really precious is the time you have to spend, whether it’s at work or with your family. Every minute should be enjoyed and savored.” Every moment should be enjoyed fully. Never shy to express yourself. You are beautiful with what you have. You are made it like this. 


There are much more things to cry on. Never let yourself be the reason behind that. Never be regretful. Enjoy whatever you are blessed with and endure happily what has been the part of that joy. As it is said: “joy never come alone.” But its fine. 

Do what you want to do, as you want to do. Life never gives the moments back. At least you won’t regret that you haven’t tried.
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” -Mark Twain 

What you must be careful about is that other people has also the right to live freely. Never forget that!!

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